Differently wired

click here🎶🎵🎵 Hi people, I hope this post reaches you well😅 Before I continue with what I have to say, I will like to clarify that I am actually a feminist. This article isn’t coming from a place of darkness and hatred that has become the home from which our 21st century feminist operate, but I’m hoping I bring a little light into that dark house we have chosen to call home. I do not understand why being a “supposed feminist” has to come with so much bitterness and an overly compulsive obsession to prove a point.  It is not  supposed to be a battle for women against the world and you do not have to bash and drag anyone who doesn’t see the world like you do ( unless of course the person is a misogynistic imp, then by all means do your thing).   I have never really been the normal overly enthusiastic feminist you would see today, probably because I have never had the reason to be aggressive about it.  I come from a family where even as the youngest of five kids and also female, my op

Heyyy Warriors 👀, Song pick: Born Tired - Jhené Aiko Audiomack Link P.S : I love this song,  or more like I love jhené Aiko, she always brings an effortless soothing vibes to her songs. Well we all know what a condescending tone means, so I'm not even going to go off on a definition spree. But if for an entirely reasonable reason you do not know😌, that's okay, either you look it up before you continue reading, or you stay closely with me while I write, I'm sure you will get the concept before I'm done here. Now when it comes to words, or more specifically when it comes to sensitivity to mean words I like to think of myself as thick skinned. Well given the family I come from, you just have to be that way. We were all given the privilege to adapt into armour wearing Word Ninjas, where the shield can ricochet shitty languages directed at us.( yea I come from a long line of great men and women, I'm sure you must have sensed it by now) . But here is the th

Hi Humans, SONG PICK FOR THE DAY: All my friends - Dermot Kennedy  Link to Song Pick Have you ever met a person and they strike you to be nothing but chaos, yet in the midst of their chaos, they seem to be protected ( imagine a person sitting at the eye of hurricane if you must, to help you get a mental picture ) Well yea, this has to be my favourite kind of humans. My Dad describes them as irresponsibly lucky humans. He also told me that in our native language, there is a term for them which when I loosely translate it, it comes off as " the grasshopper that the hen rejected ". ( ukpara okuko juru )😂. Now imagine this ( story tiiiiiiiime ): some where in a land with details oblivious to man yet he is an existing part of it, there is a family of birds preferably the local chicken, and they have been having a bad day due to the scorching effect of the sun. They haven't really had enough to eat, but then again they never eat much unless they see what to eat. Y